
Do you do more listening or talking?
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Kristi: As an introvert, I tend to be more comfortable in a crowd listening, although it’s more even when chatting with one or two people, especially if they are old friends or have one or more strong affinities in common.
Sue: I enjoy both.
Crystal: Talking. Why am I such a chatty Cathy?
Amy: I talk a lot, but I’m working on my listening skills.
Shannon: Talking, but I’m trying to listen more. I need to work on this.
Maddi: Probably more listening. It depends on who I’m with. I’m a big talker when I’m around family, but with friends I think it’s important to listen.
Tyson: I want to be a listener and I can be really good at it at times, but I’m still more prone to talk. But I aspire to be a listener. I figure I already know what I know, so if I’m talking, that means I’m not learning.
Tyler: Talking. I drink a lot of coffee and think people want to hear what I have to say. My wife has a lot of patience, being
married to me.
Jessica: I prefer listening as long as it’s not a one-sided conversation.
Jason: Listening. Especially when I am selling. The art of selling is by listening to your customer and then responding to their needs.
JoAnn: I listen all the time and hardly ever talk, especially about myself.
Trey: I’m a talker for certain. I love working ideas out with people. Talking through something is my favorite way of testing an idea, thinking through different viewpoints and circling back with something new.
Andrea: I’m a better listener. It kind of goes with the territory here at Indigo. As a great listener I can tune into my clients’ needs.
Lou-Ann: Talking.
Butch: Talking, sometimes too much. Listening, not enough.
Rik: Talking. I am also conscious of that and working on improvement.
Ashley: Listening. Everyone wants to talk, but listeners are better at building relationships.
Shaan: I’m a better listener. It’s easier to listen than to speak. Everyone loves talking.
Addison: I like to hear people’s life stories and get to know them better.